What do I do with my nails??

My company Christmas party is this Saturday, and I've scheduled my regular nail appointment for that morning. I religiously go with the pink %26amp; white powder. I want to kick it up a notch for the party. I don't want to do any 'nail art' like painting poinsettias on them or something like that. My dress is a formal, floor length black dress with silver beaded straps. My sister in law said I should go with red powder on the tips instead of white. Would that be too gaudy? I was thinking of maybe using a clear glitter powder, so they're sparkly, but not overpowering. Any other suggestions????

What do I do with my nails??
Go with polishing them a glossy black like OPI Black Onyx

and I know you said no nail art but I tell you getting some little silver bells or snowflakes on the tips would really look cute, a perfect match for your overall attire. You should be able to find snowflakes in sticker form at least at Sally beauty supply and maybe even silver bells but you might have to paint them on but I do think that would look very great.
Reply:I like your Sister in laws idea and also yours,so either one would be fine.I like to get mine red with white snow flakes on top of my nails.
Reply:OPI makes a beautiful pealized white its not white its pearlized so don't think white-out look. this would be beautiful with black~
Reply:the glitter sounds really cute. i got that once and i loved it!! sooo cute!!!
Reply:The glitter sounds nice to me.
Reply:This fall and winter, dark is back in. black is very chic. Also, very dark reds and dark jewel tones. Check OPI's website for The Russian Collection. But at something like a Christmas party, you can get away with bright reds too. But ONLY on short, squared off nails! These colors on long nails would look gothic or gaudy. Short, pretty nails, with a chic color are very sexy.... and unless you're 14 or under, no glitter. :)
Reply:I would either go with a complete natural shade or go with a black on the tips to match your gown!

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Winter wedding flowers - HELP!!!!?

I am getting married on December 1st at a candlelight service ... we are using a snowflake theme. Everything is coming together beautifully except the flowers... I am wearing an Ivory dress and my maid of honor is wearing a black chiffon dress and flowergirl ivory w/ black roses embrodered on it. Does anyone have any ideas for the flowers? I really don't want all light colored flowers or poinsettias HELP!!!

Winter wedding flowers - HELP!!!!?
Hi and congratulations on your upcoming wedding!



How beautiful!! A candlelight service....very romantic and elegant!



Have you gone to a florist to have a consultation or are you doing the floral arrangements yourself with silks? Personally, I LOVE real flowers....it doesn't need to be a huge arrangement.



My choices would be:



Bride: Red roses!! Very romantic



Maid of honor: Ivory colored roses --- which would look so nice against the black dress.



Flower Girl: Maybe a mixture of red and ivory roses? I love the kissing balls for flower girls to carry:

http://search.msn.com/images/results.asp...



Or, a simple basket of roses is beautiful also.



If you are using real flowers, go to a florist and look through their books. They can guide you and give you suggestions. They will also work within whatever budget you have.



Good luck!
Reply:Red roses would be nice (maybe with some silver accents). If you want to go with the winter theme, holly and ivy would also be pretty. Also, lillies or gerbera daisies are always nice.
Reply:Deep Red Roses accented with pine or cedar and sprigs of berries. The bouquets will stand out in pictures against yours and your bridesmaids gowns. If you want to break the red up even more at a few mini calla lily or baby's breath.
Reply:My daughter had a winter wedding, white dress, black BM's dresses, red roses. Berries added to bouquets. Sprigs of wispy evergreen in large alter pieces. Looked beautiful.
Reply:Deep red roses with cream roses would look beautiful with the ivory and black.
Reply:Contact a florist in your area,and find out what flowers are in season in the winter time. Discuss your colors, theme,and what you would like. Good luck.
Reply:ok... they seem to have the flower thing covered... this is my little two cents about how to make any flower you pick more wintery...



Find some LONG pine needles, and incorperate them into your bouquet. It adds height and texture, and can usually be picked outta somebodys back yard. It will take any flower you use and put that winter spin on it.



Just an idea.
Reply:go to http://www.blossomsweddingflowers.com/ for some information. Hope the site will help you
Reply:It's YOUR wedding so use whatever YOU think is beautiful. Too many brides get caught up in doing what is "in season" or "trendy"....it's YOUR day, the kind of flower doesnt matter as long as it makes you smile and look as beautiful as Im sure you are going to that day! Congrats!
Reply:Most all flowers are available year round now. Bouquet of Black Baccarra Roses( So dark red they look black) would work beautifully for you. A bouquet of Virginia roses(Creamy color) for the maid of honor. Flower girl can throw a mixture of these two color petals or carry a Tussie Mussie of the 2 mixed roses. If you don't want the Christmas look go with mixed flowers in all jewel tones. Makes for great beautiful pictures.
Reply:Go for a consultation with a respected florist. They can give you tons of good ideas.



Roses are always a classic choice, not matter the time of year. You can't use black roses to match the dresses (obviously), so choose another color theme for your florist to base the flowers on.
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What plants are bad for cats?

i moved recently into a house with a lot of plants. she got sick twice since we've been here and it seems to be plants because there is nothing else here that would harm her. to be specific, are there any cacti that are bad and are poinsettias bad?

What plants are bad for cats?
Here are a few links I found for you to see about this issue...I included links to toxic plants and unsafe ones. I even included what human foods are not good for cats either....



Hope you cat feels better soon !! =)
Reply:I knew the tripod link would be the good one for you...but wasn't sure so I included all that I did...I'm glad this was of a help for you, and your cat too! Thanks for the stars and points! Report It
Reply:Go to the link below for a list of plants poisonous to cats:





http://www.cfainc.org/articles/plants.ht...
Reply:http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?...
Reply:Cactus
Reply:poinsetias
Reply:Poinsettias are highly poisonous. I've also heard that any plant from the philodendron is poisonous to cats.



I'm not sure about cactus, but as long as no thorns are involved, I don't think so. The desert animals can "snack" on cacti.
Reply:diffenbachia, poinsettia, onion, marijuana( yes,pot) etc.

Plant Common Name Effects/Symptoms

Amaryllis Stomach and intestinal upset (vomiting, diarrhea)

Azalea Incoordination, trembling, collapse



Cactus Punctures skin, infection

Caladium Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, shaking head, difficulty breathing

Creeping Charlie Vomiting, diarrhea, stomach pain, cramps

Easter Lily All parts can cause kidney failure

Dieffenbachia Affects central nervous system

Ivy Vomiting, diarrhea, excitable behavior

Mistletoe Ingesting berries can cause vomiting, diarrhea, blistering in the mouth, difficulty breathing

Philodendron Same as Caladium

Poinsettia Same as Mistletoe
Reply:poison ivory
Reply:Many common houseplants are poisonous, including poinsettias. Invest in a plant book- about $7.95- or look it up on the net. Good luck with your kitty and your new home.
Reply:The only plant I can think of and is very deadly to cats is Easter Lilies

The Pastor where I work is not compassionate at all & a perfectionist?

I've worked at churches before and the pastors there were compassionate, kind, understanding. But the one where I work now doesn't seem like she's cut out to be a pastor (it is her 2nd career). She is nitpicky (heaven forbid I miss a comma/period), I feel intimidated whenever she is around me, I have asked her if I could put my mother's name in the church bulletin %26amp; she replied no, my mother is not a member (my mom is in a nursing home with Dementia, I have asked her for prayer for myself (personal matter that I was going thru) %26amp; she wouldn't even do that - she told me I needed to see a therapist. The reason I gave in %26amp; wrote on here was I had the Easter Lily list all ready (I set it up the way it was done last year, and the way the Christmas Poinsettias were set up also) %26amp; she made me change the set up. It's Holy Week, I am pressured - I had caught up the Friday before Holy Week %26amp; now I'm behind again. To top it off, I can't quit - I need the benefits %26amp; wages - what should i do?

The Pastor where I work is not compassionate at all %26amp; a perfectionist?
I feel sorry for you. Sounds like she wasn't able to achieve what she wanted to in life and now she's taking it out on others around her.



One of the unfortunate truths in life is that when you have to stay around someone because you need them, you are at their mercy. If it were me, I would look diligently for another job and pray hard about it.



If there is a higher-up you can discuss this with, by all means do so. But be aware that could make the problem worse, if you complain about her and she finds out about it.



Maybe confront her in a very nice manner and flat out ask if she doesn't like you. Most people, when it is put right too them, will realize how foolish they are acting. It can be a good way to diffuse the situation if it is brought to light that she is being mean to you for no good reason.



Best of luck to you.
Reply:What can I say, she is a christian.



Look into Buddhism.



It is a far more compassionate thought system.



Love and blessings Don
Reply:It is clear (for many reasons) she is not meant to be a pastor.

Beyond the fact she is a she, (yes, God gave definite roles.) it should be OBVIOUS.
Reply:If this is your job, do as your boss expects. Ask questions as to how things should be done if you are unsure.



As for personal advice, go elsewhere. This is a job and you don't bring your personal life to work. Likewise you don't bring your work home with you.



You have options. You can always take your bosses attitude to their boss. Yes even pastors have bosses. You can start looking for another job. Or You can find a more compassionate church home and keep the job you have.
Reply:Why don't you blame God, that always works, Or maybe pray we know that one works. OOOORRRRRR hit him were it hurts and see if he has any.
Reply:I've been there before...!

There is only two answers if it is becoming more than you can handle. Remember God will not give you more than you can handle.

1. Step up~ don't be so meek that you can not confront with boldness the things that YOU know about someone, if it will ultimately further the kingdom of God. If she is a minister... keep in mind not one gift is better than the other. So that does not make you lower than her... you need to address things if they are hindering your ministry to work for the church.

YOU CAN INITIATE THIS BY:

asking if she's doing okay,

inviting her to go eat lunch,

come in a little early or leave a little late a few times just to have an open ear.

2. Continue to be a humble servent to your master (boss).



Personally, I would address the issue by letting her know you have noticed she has been very busy and behind on things and see if there is anything you can do to help. Do this in a friendly character not as a secretary... ask for more responsibility so that things can get done... then establish a trust by praying for her or with her...





(this is why women shouldn't be pastors)
Reply:Look for another job. Not everyone in churches are right with God. It sounds like you got one of those people for a boss.
Reply:She sounds like she chose the wrong career. Personally I would never attend a church with a woman leader because I think I relate better to a man speaking. Anyway if she would have said those things to me, especially about my mother I would be pissed. I think that if you have any friends in the church you need to see how the general congregation feels about her and look into replacing her.
Reply:Anyone who would put a therapist above God should not be a pastor. I'm sorry you're being subjected to this woman. I understand your needs, but I would strongly suggest getting a new job. Good luck and God bless!
Reply:This ignorant "B" is just mean and "received her calling" in order to get her money for nothing.

There is no obligation for preachers to be kind, compassionate, or loving. Many, through out history, have been tyrants or supported by tyrants.

Sweetie, put your mother's name or whomever you want on the list and don't worry about this minor tyrant.
Reply:It sounds like you do not have a realistic view of a job. You are an employee and your supervisor has certain expectations. They are different from what was expected of you before. You will have to change to work with this new supervisor or find another job. If you don't like the atmosphere then you can start looking elsewhere for employment.



I agree that a pastor should be compassionate, and that this woman does not seem to understand what being a pastor is all about, but that has nothing to do with your job.



Step it up or you might just get fired. I'm sorry to have to say that, but it's the cold, hard truth.
Reply:I despair. I can get thousands of thumbs down for this opinion...



But you need to go find a more Bible-Based congregation of Believers.



"see a THERapist?" GOD is our therapist when we are a Christian.



Jesus is our therapy.



It would take too long to list reasons why I say go- but basically, you need to go find a real Spirit filled bunch of believers.



That Church has gone over into a "business" and merely an "organized religion". It needs real religion, real life.
Reply:Try telling them to err is human. Sounds like she hear the wrong call for drill Sargent.

The True or False Christmas quiz-Can you answer the questions below?

It's that time of the year,

1)We can trace the origins of the first Christmas card back to 1843.

2)The common Christmas plant Poinsettias is poisonous to humans

3)The Dutch were those who brought the Christmas tree tradition to the United States.

4)A traditional early English Christmas dinner was a pig's head with mustard

5)Connecticut was the first U.S. state to recognize Christmas as an official holiday

6)In Ukraine spiders and spider webs are a traditional part of Christmas decorations

7)The traditional hook-like red-white candy canes started out as straight white sticks.

8)As the song states, Christmas was once a 12-day celebration

9)The first use of electric Christmas lights was in the 1920's.

10)In Victorian England the Christmas turkeys wore boots as they were walked into London

The True or False Christmas quiz-Can you answer the questions below?
1) T 2) F 3) F 4) F 5) T 6) F 7) T 8) T 9) T 10) T
Reply:Little early for xmas, don't you think?
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Reply:1. T

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What colors to use for a late November wedding?

I am getting married 11/29/08, which is the Saturday after Thanksgiving. I am kind of stuck on which colors to use. The church will already have the Christmas wreaths up, but the poinsettias will not be there yet. I am not really wanting to do a Christmas theme, since it won't be December quite yet. I am not really liking the oranges and yellows for fall either. The dresses I am looking at for me are all ivory or champagne in color. I really want to have the bridesmaids dresses a dark color and was thinking red (like a dark crimson) or even a burgundy. Will this look too Christmasy? If so, what are some other good color combinations that I could choose. We are planning a late afternoon wedding and getting married in Dallas. The weather here cold be 70 and sunny or it could be cold in the 40s. Thanks for any suggestions!

What colors to use for a late November wedding?
I like a dark dark red or burgandy also. You could offset it with some dusty rose in the flowers or something to make it less christmasy.
Reply:I would stay away from the Fall and Christmas colors entirely. Have you seen the regal purple color that is out--it is kind of a violet blue--royal blue in some lights, dark purple in others. You could do creamy white and yellow flowers (think garden roses, dahlias, mums, yellow freesia), maybe accented with bittersweet or copper toned mums or touches of gold. I would do dressy fabrics like silk, taffeta, or brocade. Would be lovely with a diamond white or ivory wedding dress and that regal purple color looks great on almost everyone. Check out JCrew online to see the color--they will also send you a swatch of fabric at no charge.
Reply:dark lavender and dark greens are very pretty
Reply:It sounds like a winter wedding. Very rich strong colors and bold color schemes. That is very fitting for a winter wedding. I think Burgundy is a great color for the bridesmaids. I do not think your idea is too Christmas like.
Reply:try to look for autumn colors...like gold, brown, orange...champagne is actually good and so is burgundy...at least if you go for autumn colors its like a combination of christmas and thanksgiving altogether :)



congratulations in advanced!!! :D
Reply:I dont think it will be too Christmasy with the reds if they/you arent carrying christmasy flowers... And as long as you dont do apple red and stick to a burgundy or one with a little purple... then thats not christmasy at all...
Reply:Advice someone just gave me while I was concerned about colors for an outdooe wedding. You dont have to get anything to go with the green, any color that can be found in a flower will go with green. That being said If you dont like yellows and oranges dont go with them no law says a November wedding must have those colors. If you like red go for it but if you are afraid of a christmasy look lean toward one with a purple tone like burgandy, or even a purple with a red tone.
Reply:Try a very dark emerald green and ivory with pine cones as accent. Beautiful winter theme
Reply:forest green!
Reply:A dark burgundy dress will look fine but a dark cranberry or plum might be better because it will eliminate the Christmas look you want to avoid. Something like the color called "Berry" from Alfred Angelo would be nice.You could have them wear navy or dark blue and carry white flowers with some pink accents. That would be very wintery without being holiday inspired.
Reply:Chrimson and dark burgundy are christmas colors. Try like a dark hot pink with orange and black. Theres several flowers that go with this color theme and many things you can do to the wreaths to incorporate them.
Reply:Check out the fall colors like the colors of a tree a rusty orange/brown/yellow. A friend of mind have a fall wedding and the colors were very nice.

Any bouquet ideas for a winter wedding??

I know poinsettias are a very affordable options for that time of year, but I'm just not in love with them. Any flower suggestions?



And also, our colours are dark purple, chocolate brown, and ivory.



Thanks!!

Any bouquet ideas for a winter wedding??
I think that the gerbera daisies are a beautiful flower; they are also fairly affordable.

They have some beautiful calla lilies that come in a plum color, but they are more on the expensive side. Here is a picture of them...gorgeous flowers:

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3166/2345...

You could also try to find some deep purple tulips. Then you could pair them with the white gerbera daisies and wrap them in a brown ribbon. I think that would look nice together.
Reply:I had a winter wedding along time ago but I had white (fake) fur muffs for us girls to hold that had poinsettias, holly and ivy attached, mine just had more flowers.



Purple calla lillies, stephanotis and brown ribbon wrapping the stems?

http://www.theknot.com/ch_article.html?O...

http://www.southcoastweddingbells.com/st...

other ideas:

http://www.flower-arrangement-advisor.co...

http://www.davidmcconkey.co.uk/display.p...

http://www.thedelightedeye.com/images/wh... tuck in some of the purple calla's



best wishes................
Reply:Check out the first few photos here:

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Sterling Silver roses:

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=h...

Chicago Peace Roses (copper), Leonidas (cinnamon brown), Lavender Sunblaze, Terra Nostra (creamy brown)......

Good luck!
Reply:I was married in January and I used miniature Calla Lillies and a red berry plant to make it more wintery. It was very pretty, but they are not winter flowers if you are looking for something affordable



Here is the berry:



http://georgiafaces.caes.uga.edu/graphic...
Reply:I am a florist and actually I did wedding flowers last december. It was all calla lilies and red roses. Absolutely gorgeous!! Calla lilies are very popular for december weddings.

Best wishes and Congrats!!
Reply:I've seen bride's carry a fur (well, faux-fur) muff and have it be beautiful.



Something with white feathers



Check out

http://www.lerheebouquets.com/winter%20b...
Reply:white roses....think snow. or another white flower could be equally pretty. or red roses....or red and white flowers together.
Reply:roses,